CBT Therapist Hertfordshire

Relationships & Boundaries

3 Ways to Stop People Pleasing in its Tracks

Identify people-pleasing habits and learn three actionable ways to set boundaries and prioritise your needs confidently.

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CBT Therapist Hertfordshire

Self-Compassion & Mindfulness

Making Self-Compassion Your Secret Superpower

Discover how self-compassion can transform your life and perfectionism. Learn practical ways to nurture kindness towards yourself daily.

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CBT Therapist Hertfordshire

Anxiety & Overthinking

Social Anxiety Disorder: Understanding Symptoms & Treatment

Learn about social anxiety disorder, its symptoms, and treatments that can help you feel more confident in social situations.

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CBT Therapist Hertfordshire

Perfectionism

5 Ways to Beat Unhealthy Perfectionism and Thrive as a Perfectionist

Explore five effective strategies to reduce unhealthy perfectionism and embrace a healthier, more balanced mindset.

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CBT Therapist Hertfordshire

Self-Compassion & Mindfulness

A Beginner’s Guide to Mindfulness

An easy introduction to mindfulness and how it supports mental health, anxiety management, and self-compassion.

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The Perfectionism Therapist, Natalie Englander, a woman sitting on a sofa writing on her laptop about why we procrastinate to help understand the root causes and solutions.

Anxiety & Overthinking

OCD: Understanding Symptoms and Treatment

Learn about obsessive-compulsive disorder symptoms and effective treatments to help manage and reduce OCD’s impact on life.

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CBT Therapist Hertfordshire

Perfectionism

Wondering if You’re a Perfectionist?

Explore common signs of perfectionism and see if these resonate with your experiences. Understand when perfectionism might need support.

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CBT Therapist Hertfordshire

Self-Compassion & Mindfulness

What CBT is and How it Actually Works

Get a clear explanation of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and how it helps manage anxiety, perfectionism, and related challenges.

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Meet Natalie

I’m a UK psychotherapist and coach for perfectionists & high-achievers. I’m a mum to my 3-year-old identical twin girls. I was late-diagnosed with ADHD. I’m running my own biz.
 And my mind COULD BE a total disaster zone if I never learned to handle and harness my own perfectionism.

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